He then participated in these atrocious activities from age 12 to 15.
At age 12, while looking for answers on the Internet, he found porn. “Ray” did not receive an early education about sex and was not allowed to talk about it or ask questions. He grew up on a farm and ranch, with a very conservative and religious family, and was home-schooled. However, he confessed something horrible to me the other night. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He is charming, funny, and my best friend. We both have good careers, share common interests, and love each other very much. I need advice about something that I can’t ask anyone else. Submit your questions and comments here before or during the live discussion. Got a burning question for Prudie? She’ll be online here on Slate to chat with readers each Monday at noon. Please send your questions for publication to. Get Dear Prudence delivered to your inbox each week by signing up in the box below.